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Create a positive childhood for your children despite divorce

On Behalf of | Aug 30, 2019 | Child Custody

Children deserve to a have a childhood they can look back on and have fond memories. This doesn’t mean that you have to spend a lot of money or spoil them with lavish things. Instead, it means that they should have a loving family that puts their needs first. This might not be easy when you are going through a divorce, so you will have to put forth an effort to make things stable for the children.

One of the most difficult things for children to handle is when their parents have conflicts. Trying to minimize their exposure to the problems that you and your ex have can protect them from having to live a constantly contentious life. You have to try to have difficult conversations with your ex away from the children. Additionally, never ask the kids to relay messages between parents because this puts them directly in the stress zone that comes with conflicts.

As your children grow, try to find ways that you can spend quality time with them. This might involve going out to do something fun, but don’t discount the joy of just staying at home to watch a movie or play a board game. You should figure out what traditions your children enjoy and sprinkle in some positive surprises to give them special memories.

Your parenting plan should outline the terms of you and your ex interacting about the children. Things like a parenting time schedule and dispute resolution methods, as well as a clear set of guidelines, can help to keep everything calm and stable for the kids.